DEMTRI THE TERRIBLE!!!!

My horrible math tutor

So back in 2007 when I was 17 in Highschool I was having a very hard time in grade 10 math. Math was never my best subjects in school as my Aspergers made me have great difficulties in it my whole life.

I had gone through spec ed, tutors, and other various math programs in and out of school for me to learn better at it. Well back in grade 10 I was so bad at math that my family especially my older sister began to get desperate. So during that year in school I was assigned a math coach in school, I was also forced to do Kumon (a math program outside of school) and finally I was also forced to go to a tutor outside of school named Demtri.

When my sister called Demtri before I even had one session with this man, my sister told Demtri that I; her brother has Aspergers. Demtri and his wife told my sister over the phone that they had taught someone with Aspergers named Robert Armor.

A person whose existence I would question if this "Robert Armor" ever actually existed, because what Demtri would do next?

So I went to Demtri's house on every Sunday from then on to learn in his basement along with someone kids throughout my hometown whom also had bad anathema skills like I did.

When I first meet the guy I found him to be very different from other tutors I had in that he seemed Social and talkative with his students but in a very unprofessional way I would find out later on.

The best way to describe his personality towards us was like that of a stand up comedy at a local comedian club making jokes that sometimes bordered on offensive.

One of these offensive moments was when I first meet him he asked me up to my face after learning my name "Hey what are you a Japanese, or Chinese?" One of the first things this "tutor" asked me was my ethnic background like it was essential or something? Tutors in my opinion are supposed to teach their students no matter their skin colour, ethnic background, and so on.

For someone my parents were paying to teach me to get better at math he sure loved to break professional behavior and ask questions like that which in the workplaces are illegal to ask employees or clients but then again this guy was teaching out of his basement and for himself.

So at the time I humored him and told him I was Chinese like that really matter what my skin colour was for him to teach me?

Things from there got worse, I was 17 years old with Aspergers and I had enough troubles like bullying I got in school by my various schoolmates for me being different from themselves. I was bad at math in school and was on the verge of failing the subject cause I was assigned to be taught in school by a Math teacher whom was hard on marking his students.

I had disabilities in math my whole life and yet in Highschool I was assigned to a teacher whom made the averages of class math too hard for me to understand. I as a young Aspie at the time remembered I had thrown a few Aspie temper tantrums which I didn't want to but got so made I couldn't stop myself like the Incredible Hulk.

It was so loud my classmates would later in give me crap about it pointing at me in the hallway up to my face saying I was crazy when I wasn't just very unsupported by the school system, having a lack of friends and a family who didn't get my Aspergers.

So my self esteem was pretty low so I remembered I would turn to escapism in the form of playing World of Warcraft to get away from my worries for that. So when I had to go into tutoring with Demtri my self esteem was already pretty low and falling.

I would bring my homework to Demtri, he'd sort of help, I wouldn't get his teaching method and I would get angry throwing an Aspie temper tantrum. Then he stand there looking at me as if he didn't know what I was doing? It was like he wasn't used to people with Aspergers. He or his wife said over the phone to my sister that they had taught a kid with Aspergers before? And the famous Aspergers temper tantrum was one of these things he might encounter and should be able to handle if he taught an Aspie like me before.

He'll start showing impatience and even anger back at me......the student he knew very well had the learning disabilities and the high functioning autism. From there the Sundays that followed would get remotely worse, as I would come in trying to make the best of the situation on those Sundays I should've spent at home watching the Simpsons instead being in this Aspie ignorant educator who was a poor excuse for a stand up comedy who in reality was a guy who apparently got fired from his job for being politically incorrect according to him.

I don't know how Demtri got fired and for what reason but the way he acted toward me was a pretty good indication. I remember one time I would talk about my interests one of them being Spiderman and superheroes. Then Demtri would go on making fun if me for Spiderman saying "Hey kid you worship guys in tights?"

I wouldn't respond then with every thing I'd say he'd find something to make fun of like saying how Spiderman taught me something in a back ally his meaning being something Sexual behind it.

Also sometimes my older sister would bring me over to his house on Sundays for tutoring back then and he would see her at his house. I remember this one time he said "Hey kid your older......she's hot!!!" It to me even a kid with Aspergers who didn't really get Social situations  knew that a tutor should never say that especially up to his client's face around other clients in his basement. Also he was married to a wife already with two young sons both in single digit years and he has the nerve to say disgusting things that about my sister.

I hated this guy so much, he made fun of me every chance he got, talked about my older sister like he was some horny 15 year old with a crush when he was some muscle bound, alpha male type douchebag in his mid to late 30's making fun of a 17 year old with Aspergers which he knew nothing about. He mostly said he knew what it was cause he was desperate after getting laid off from his work for being an asshole that he opened up this tutoring ring in his basement "to teach math" when in reality he made fun of me for my race, my difference and saying sexually suggestive things about my older sister.

I would remember each time I'd come home and be really mad and my parents would ask me what I hated about Demtri which I didn't tell them as they might think I somehow started the problems with him in reality when I didn't, a common routine they would always pull on me everytime I come home telling them I was bullied at school.

This was no different, and I hated this happening everytime. I have Aspergers and I have high intelligence but at a great cost of any Social understandings so a lot of times I come off as different and people who have problems in their own lives would pick on me to feel better. This time being a 30 something year old man who supposed to teach me math that claimed he taught someone before with a Aspergers only taught me to add up the amount of trauma he gave to my already falling self esteem.

I hated Demtri so much that I remember one time I for the first time realized I had no math homework from school. So that upcoming Sunday I wouldn't have to go, so I told my sister to call Demtri to cancel my spot there.

Only things didn't go as I planned and when my sister told Demtri's wife over the phone about my lack of homework and cancellation. His bitch of a wife yelled at my sister about canceling our appointment that Sunday. Demtri's wife yelled at my sister how they saved that seat for me and had to give up other clients wanting that spot just for it.

So I was yelled at by my sister told go the next Sunday with no real homework except for Kumon which I could handle on my own. I remembered showing up just to humor this horrid man and his horrid wench of a wife with my Kumon homework and Demtri just gave a sarcastic remark about me doing Kumon.

I didn't even need his half ass math tutoring that Sunday either. From there he continued to make fun of me like always and being paid $30 also. Then the time came when I was done school and I past math but just barely.

I was so happy that last session I had with him when I got up and left then the douchebag asked "So I'm not seeing you again?"

I responded yes and I never did, yet his legacy of emotional pain he inflicted upon me stayed haunting me in my most private of moments, and from time to time every time I get angry, see math, hear the word tutor I think back to this monster named Demtri.

I would never speak of this to my parents as they would never understand the pain this man caused or what they could've done at the time they were the types of parents whom cared more about me doing well in school then how my emotional well being was doing?

I suffered and am still suffering in silence of what this man did.

Wherever he is I hope he gets a taste of karma one day for the way he treated me, lying about helping someone with my condition, saying Sexual suggestive things about my older sister  and making fun of a 17 year old mildly autistic teenager who barely got Social situations.

DEMTRI I HOPE YOU BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY!!!!!!!